You get what you get. Like. You live in Nebraska. For the cost of living and the amount of fancy pants companies that are here? People want a big city OR a small town and Omaha isn't really either. No, people don't go out of their way to make you casseroles - unless you have a relationship with them. I have neighbors that are so friendly they helped me move in all my furniture and I have neighbors that told me to never bring over Christmas cookies again because they didn't know me. Both are fine.